I have a terrible memory. I have lost or suppressed so many of my childhood memories that I feel like I don't have any. But as I pondered on what memories I have with Mark, I was amazed at how easily they came. So here are 30 memories, or things you've taught me, and/or what I love about you Bud.
(I love how awkward we look in this picture. It's almost painful.)
HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!
1. He taught me to appreciate, although not enjoy, the musical stylings of Jethro Tull, The Grateful Dead, and later, Dave Matthews (him I enjoy!) The playlist has been created especially for today!
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2. He taught me to play Ultima, and LOVE it!
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3. He instilled in me a deep love of St. Patrick's Day by teaching me how to catch a leprechaun. We would find the perfect spot in the canal behind our house and dig a hole deep enough and camouflage it so that when I leprechaun fell in, he would have to leave his bag of candy in order to get out. And then he would leave a note that went something like-
"O' ye laddie, ye caught me again!! Next year I'll be smarter and look out for your trap"
I still, to this day, believe in leprechauns.
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4. He taught me that if you swallow a watermelon seed, a watermelon will grow inside of you. I believed that way longer than I care to admit.
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5. I used to love to watch him draw. I would often sneak into his room and look at his sketchbooks.
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6. He taught me to love reading. If Mark liked a book, then I wanted to like it too. Case in point: The Sword of Shanarah series. I'll always have a special place in my heart for fantasy.
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7. One time, late at night, we watched Pocahontas and just laughed through the whole thing. He probably doesn't remember it, but it's a memory that I cherish.
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8. He loved sneaking into my room at night and crawling next to my bed until he could reach out and grab my leg. I would always scream.
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9. He told me that there were evil people that lived in a certain part of the mountains by our home that would come down and get me. I was terrified.
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10. I LOVED his long curly hair that he had in High School. I was sure I had the coolest brother ever!
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11. I feel like he taught me how to mow the lawn, and we'd always race on the paths that the freshly mowed lawn made.
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12. Okay, this one almost made me cry when I thought of it....he taught me how to make freakin' AWESOME sand villages in our sandbox complete with rivers and lakes filled by our garden hose. We could spend hours out there.
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13. Until I married a Marniers fan, I remained a fan of the Oakland A's for the sole reason that it was Mark's little league team.
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14. When Mark had his first girlfriend, I loved to spy on them in hopes to catch them making out! I think I did once.
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15. He let me know, frequently, that my bangs were atrocious and looked like a mouth that was going to eat him. I think that's what he called them, "the mouth". It made me sooooo mad.
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16. Mark is the reason I grew out my bangs.
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17. He taught me how to play around the world ping-pong, and I felt like we were kids again.
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18. My college friends had crushes on him. I thought that was so cool.
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19. I love his teeth more than anyone else's, because they are exactly like mine!
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20. He let me make his wedding cake! Or I guess I should say, Mikalann let me make their wedding cake.
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21. I drove his car to my wedding. I don't know why, but that holds a lot of significance for me.
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22. He was the first to nickname my son "Action-Jaxon" and it melted my heart to see him love his little nephew on our trip to Yellowstone.
23. I love whenever he pulls a "Bud"
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24. He always made my play goalie in our backyard so he could practice soccer and make me feel like I was awesome at it.
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25. He has the greatest laugh, and shares it often. He also had the greatest sense of humor and shares that often as well. He's hilarious
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26. He taught me to love pink lozengers, even though now when I taste them, they are terrible!
And while we're talking about food, he likes my scotcharoos more than anyones!
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27. I always called him Marcus Peconius
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28. He taught me how NOT to drive on an icy mountain pass
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29. He taught me how to play Texas Hold'em, and also how to loose money at Texas Hold'em
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30. He is far and above the best big brother our there and I love him so much.
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Happy 30th Mark!!
Love your little sis, Stephanie